In Loving Memory Of Baby
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One Of The best Dogs To Ever Grace God's Earth

In Loving Memory of Baby...... One of the best dogs to ever grace God's earth. This is her story. 

When I brought home this wriggling little puppy, I was a single parent of two boys and was looking for a good family guard dog...... Little did I know that I was bringing home a daughter.
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I knew very little about Dobermans at the time as everyone didn't have a home computer back then. I bought a book and liked everything I read in it. The following stories are all about our life with a dog who was a better person than most people I know.

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My first mistake was thinking that I could leave her locked in the bathroom for safety my first night back to work after she came to live with us...... How was I supposed to know that an upset puppy would get diarrhea and dig at the walls as high as she could reach until her paws were bloody??? I came home to find crap and blood in equal measure painted on every wall (two and a half feet up!) and surface in my bathroom..... We went and got a crate that day and I learned how to crate train. Only needed it for a month until she figured out what was NOT appropriate chew toys and where she got praise for going 'tinkle'...... The one problem I had with her in training was that she was so darned INTELLEGENT! She knew what the black shoes meant..... I took her with me just about every where except when I put those black shoes on, then she got left behind. Working night shift I slept during the day and she slept with me.... mostly. I awoke one afternoon to find my black shoes missing....... They were much worse for the wear and bearing innumerable tooth marks. I confronted her with the evidence in hand and shouted "NO! NEVER!" Just that.... a displeased voice....... After that she would hide my work shoes in a different place each day and the laces would be soggy and undone but never again did I find a tooth mark. That was the day I taught her the word 'Never'....... And she never forgot that word.... If I said, "NEVER".. you couldn't MAKE her do it. I taught her never to put her feet on people, doors or walls. She had better people manners than some people.
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We soon discovered that she had a terrible fear of the linoleum kitchen floor. So of course we would deliberately roll her favorite ball so that she had to go there..... Total slow motion as each foot is carefully set down one at a time until she reached her ball. (Of course we were rolling on the floor laughing) Then, instead of turning around she would back track just as carefully to get back to the carpet. After a week of this she got over her fear and the fun in the game blew over. But memories that I still smile at today.
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Working as a prison guard and being a single parent to boys, our humor was some times 'off color'....... We had seen a movie where a dog owner (in prissy pink) had taught her poodle the command, "Ball, Ball!" and the dog would go to the nearest man and take a bite.... well, we thought this was hilarious and I would often joke and tell my sons, "Keep it up buddy and one day I'm going to teach Baby 'Ball, Ball!'" This would send my sons into fits of laughter and Baby would get all excited.... she knew we were talking about her and she knew it was a command word..... she just didn't know what it meant. This went on for months and one day, after threatening my eldest son with this, Baby's excitement got the better of her and she 'nudged' him....... right in the right spot and of course, my son fell to laughing so hard that Baby connected the dots..... so to speak....... We could not use the words "Ball Ball!" for a very long time.......
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Baby knew my habits well. If I was overly long at the computer and passed the time I was usually in bed, I would find her standing patiently next to me, staring intently. "Oh, all right! I'm going to bed for crying out loud!" and off she'd go to climb in beside me. Normally I would smoke a cigarette at the computer before retiring for the day but one day, I was ready for bed but hadn't finished my smoke so I took it to bed with me. Baby jumped up but would not lay down as usual.... she stood on the mattress staring, her eyes inches from my face.... "oh, GOOD GRIEF Baby! I can't believe my dog is ordering me not to smoke in bed!" And I put out the smoke. She watched until it was out and then contentedly lay down. She shared my bed for several years...... right until she started shoving me out of it in her sleep. She would cuddle up next to me and as she slept and got warm, would stretch out her legs, shoving me to the end of the mattress. Sleeping in my bed stopped when I awoke in mid-air one day.... "Oh, now that just cracks it!... OUT!"
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I remember awakening to my eldest son telling me that he'd taught Baby how to box..... half asleep I wasn't paying attention to what exactly he was saying until I came into the room JUST in time to see the flat of Baby's paw smack my youngest son square in the forehead and knocked him right back on his behind. Oh, Jeez guys! THAT command came to a screeching halt.
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My eldest son brought home a stray cat and managed to talk me into letting him keep it..... a week later it had kittens...... oh joy. Not entirely sure how Baby would react to kittens (she thought the mom cat was a great squeak toy but never hurt her) we were careful in introducing them. Shielding the tiny kitten and letting Baby slowly bring her nose closer, Baby very slowly reached out her tongue and gave a tentative lick. "AWE!" said my youngest son, Shane, "Baby gave it a kiss!" My reply got his attention, "Was she KISSING the kitten or TASTING it?".... "oh." .... Well, we needn't have worried because soon we would get a lot of laughter out of getting Baby to lay down, putting all 4, four week old kittens around her then have some one call her from the kitchen.. It took her ten minutes to get up and move away from them as she stared at the floor before carefully setting each foot down so as not to step on one.
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Some where in her young adulthood I got the very bad idea to go out on a date with a fellow and ended up (very quickly) with a stalker. Knowing that I sleep during the day he'd gotten the bright idea to sneak into my house as I slept....... but he forgot one small detail... the dog that was so friendly when he'd met her before? Wasn't stupid and knew he was up to no good. Regardless of how wonderful she was in any other regards... that day she earned her right to her place in the family...... I awoke to squalling tires and a frantic barking. I made it to the window in time to see his car, tires spinning and grass flying, driver's door still open in his haste to quite the premises. She seemed unsure if she'd done the right thing or not so she got all kinds of 'Good Girl!!!'s along with some Scooby snacks. From that day on, if me or mine didn't open the door for you, you were not coming into our home. Funny but my stalker never again came to my house...... wonder why?
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A friend once sought sanctuary at my house. He was pretty badly beaten up and his wife had arranged the event. I have always been very protective of friends and family and I was furious at the time when (don't know how she got my number) she called and my friend promptly hung up... She immediately called again and I grabbed the phone first and with out hesitation (and obviously with out thought) informed her that I had an article of her clothing and was in the middle of training my doberman to her scent..... but she was welcome to come over if she chose. YEARS later, my friend (who did make up with her after) came by to visit but said that he couldn't stay.... he'd left his wife standing on the side of the highway several miles distant because that was as close to my house as she would come...... I didn't say she was STUPID. After I got my laughter under control, I said, "Ya know? I get the feeling that she doesn't much care for me for some reason...... Suits me just fine!"
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 I'd taught Baby to catch a frisbee for exercise and when not in play I'd sit it between the wall and couch in plain view. Told her  that she was not to touch it with out permission and it didn't matter if it had been weeks since I'd thrown it for her, "Baby, Frisbee!" had her going to fetch it from it's place and she wouldn't touch it with out that command. One thing only did I have the Devil of a time teaching her. I told her to sit, she sat, looking attentive. I would say, 'catch!' and toss a bit of kibble which she would watch, as it bounced off her nose, then look from the kibble on the floor over to me.... still expectant. I knew the fault lay within me not her. She was perfectly willing to do what ever I wanted..... the trick was figuring out how to tell her WHAT that was. After a second I would give her permission to snatch up the treat..... NEVER giving any sign of disappointment, just no 'good girl!'.... Now she KNEW I was trying to teach her something but for the life of her, couldn't figure out what it was. So each day we would try again... never for more than a few minutes at a time. After a while the bounce the kibble off the nose thing got boring and one day she yawned.. I tossed the bit into her opened mouth and said, "Good Girl!"... It was as if the porch light came on.... "Oh THAT'S what this loony broad wants me to do???!! Why didn't she say so!"

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She was nearing 5 years of age when I met my husband and I was so worried that she would object to an adult male. I was explaining to my then boyfriend that I would need to bring her with me on my next week end at his place. No one was going to be home that week end to let her out. As we were talking on the phone he suddenly stopped and  said, "Wait! You mean your dog lives in the house???"... ho boy........ My husband has been on an animal learning curve from HELL since then! LOL! And he's gotten very good a reading just about any animal. My soon-to-be-husband was astounded at Baby's manners and obedience and floored when he learned that there would be no fleas as they now had a monthly dose of stuff that kept them off. My husband was in love with her and she with him from the beginning. And I was worried that she'd object??? *SNICKER* I had to tell him not to stop too fast on the way to the bathroom as she was always on his heels.
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I had waited to breed her to be absolutely sure nothing genetic would show up in later life but 5 years of researching and I had found a suitable, pedigreed stud that had everything that I wanted. As the pregnancy progressed, I realized that she was HUGE! I thought, "Man, there has got to be 5 or 6 puppies in there!" Finally the day arrived when her temperature said that delivery was imminent. She had learned real fast to try and hide when I reached for the thermometer but as in all things, obediently came when I called, thermometer or not. If she didn't like something she would show me in every line of her body that she was objecting and objections were always allowed... disobedience WASN'T. First pup pops out and I attach an elastic band around it's neck and made a hash mark on the impromptu collar and wrote down time and sex of the pup in a note book. I sat it in front of her in the whelping box and she looked at me as if to say, "IT'S MOVING MA!" Then growled at it. Ok. I tucked it safely under the ledge and the next one popped out. Robert stuck his head in the door just in time to see me snatch up the latest placenta muttering, "This ain't Wild Kingdom, Chick, you are NOT eating that!" Thought Robert was going to pull a muscle laughing. A couple of hours later, puppy number 6 pops out and I carefully felt of her belly.... Don't feel any more pups. Baby had stopped growling by the third pup and was happily licking away at them so I got up to send a birth announcement via email and as I was doing so, one of my sons stepped in and asked how many, "Six!" says I......... "Nope, 7!" Says son.... "ugh, what?!"..... "another one just popped out Mom." Not only did we now have 7 but I could see that an 8th one was on the way! YEEGADS! A couple more hours later and there are 10 pups! WOW! But that has to be the last of them.... Off I go to re-send a new birth announcement when I hear Baby give an odd bark. I guess she figured that since I'd been present for the first ten, I should be alerted to the 11th pup!! Holey cow! 11 poop machines  with no off switches! Yeah, I was SO glad we had three teen boys to help out.... we went through grocery carts full of recycled news paper. Having noted each pup as it arrived and made the appropriate hash marks on the collars so that I could know one from another, I watched and made sure that the smaller pups got first go at her while the larger ones waited a few minutes. The group that got first go began to be bigger than others so that group changed and after a couple of weeks I realized that Baby just wasn't producing enough milk for all of them so I began supplemental feedings  using milk, raw egg and Kyro syrup fed from a needle-less syringe. Again with the note book so I could keep track of who took how much and who was getting bigger as well as notes on temperament.... oh, yes, they start showing personality within the first week! As I sat trying to fed one I noted that he'd been a real brat the day before about it. And he was that day too.. First he tried to evade the syringe and I muscled my way to his mouth..... then he actually GOWLED at me at two weeks of age! Then he took it a step further and yelled for his Momma who came charging into the room looking for the transgressor messing with her pup and she stopped dead in her tracks when she saw me with the pup in hand. She looked a bit confused, sat down with head cocked to the side and watched for a minute...... *the look* "So what's HE fussing about Ma?" She'd been delighted when I started supplementing feedings as if to say, "Yeah, you handle them.... my work here is done."  That pup by the way could not go to just any new home, I matched pups with new owners and Gave them 3-4 pups to see which ones would go with whom. I asked a LOT of questions of prospective new owners like "couch potato or jogger?" More sedate pups would be brought in to be a couch potato and more energetic pups brought in to meet the joggers..... that is a generalization of course but you get the picture. A liter of puppies ain't for Sissies! That little boy that called his Mamma on me had to go to an experienced owner that could deal with a 80 lb brat.
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I kept track of all the puppies in their new homes and made it clear that should they find that they could not keep the pup, I would re-home them. I only had one pup to re-home and that was because the owner had gotten a job in Alaska and they did not allow dogs inside the house and he could not bring himself to make his dogs stay outside. That dog was Maggie and she is still happily with her new owner who had originally bought one of her sisters. One pup went to a couple who had no children but furry ones and they enjoyed the life of the show ring. That pup won nearly every competition he was entered into. Another pup went into training for the police force and did very well at it. I had a list of folks that had my pups or had met my pups waiting for me to do a second breeding and I did consider it but with the male I had used at stud before having died, I never found another stud of equal quality. I intended to breed Ember just once but at age 4 had not found a suitable male when I began to get reports that I didn't like one bit. Despite my carful research, two pups had von willabrawns's disease (free bleeders) which is a common genetic trait in a lot of pure breeds but it meant that though Ember had showed no sign of it at that point, she carried the gene and would pass it onto her offspring. At least two other of the pups had died of heart failure by that time too and though that may or may not have been a genetic issue, between the two conditions, I decided that Ember was out of the gene pool.
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I had picked out the daughter that I wanted to keep (reason for the breeding) and had most of the pups spoken for when I noticed Robert favoring a dainty little girl. I was still working night shift and my new husband was astounded when I suddenly burst out, "You have been sleeping around on me haven't you!??!" His jaw hung open and he began to stutter a defense but I cut him off, snatched the covers from my side of the bed, pointed at the puppy hairs then at the little dainty girl and said, "And THAT'S the bitch you have been sleeping with while I'm off at work!" That's when he realized that I was just poking fun and he busted out laughing.... Fessed up that yes, he'd been letting her sleep in the bed..... so that was two off the market. Angel and Ember joined our family.
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I never bred her a second time as I never did want to BE a breeder but when I DID breed her it was with all home work done and the raising and matching of the pups all done correctly..... That means that some folks were just not suitable for a dober kid..... Dobers are just not suited to being anywhere other than with their family. If you want an outside dog, you do NOT want a Doberman. They are indoor dogs, though I have met some exceptions to this that were quite happy outside. ...Oh, and I got one phone call from the add that still makes me livid to this day. It went something like, "Hello?", "Yew got doberman puppies fer sale?", "Yes, I do.", "Duh they fight good?", CLICK. Some times I think the gene pool needs a little chlorine.
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Now, Hubby, myself, one of my teen boys and two of his were all happily renting a home... a home with a postage stamp for a yard..... and now THREE dobermans.... So we went looking and found 30 acres for sale so the dogs could really RUN every day. Don't get me wrong, I'd been exercising Baby daily using a bicycle leash and ALL the pups got leash training and the beginnings of house training and manners before they went to new homes. But with our own land they could run all day if they wanted.... and they frequently did. We didn't have food issues because it was available at all times.... but they stayed trim with all the exercise. I trained my girls to be on guard with strangers until one of us opened the gate and then it was like a light switch as they went from on guard, to all about "PET ME PLEASE!" They never failed to impress visitors.
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By now Baby had me pretty well figured out and since no feet on people was a big rule, she learned to fake people out. She would head trait at them like a freight train, skid to a halt at their feet and lift hers off the ground just enough to make them flinch in anticipation of getting knocked over..... and then you could see the silly smile on her face.... she didn't break the rule so I refused to get onto her about it.... but I did try and warn folks that she would try it. Silly bitch just thought it was hilarious. Robert enjoyed it immensely when a crew came out to do some work and stated flatly that they were not coming in until the dogs were put up and wouldn't believe that Robert could keep them under control.... well, the job took longer than expected and finally Robert told them that he HAD to let them out for a while but promised that they would not bother the workers..... they looked on apprehensively as  he let them tumble out of the house and he said, "Sit!" and three butts hit the ground and all six eyes on him and him alone. The work crew were duly impressed at his ability to give voice command and at a distance, when one headed for the crew, he gave a command and she did an about face in mid stride. Yep, they were THAT good.
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Dogs are a LOT more complicated than most folks give them credit for. A situation came up that I had the darnedest time figuring out. I had noticed Angel (Roberts little dainty pup) picking fights with Ember who was quite a bit bigger than her but she would still aggravate until there was a fight. Baby would blaze over and pin one or the other (usually Angel but not always) as the aggressor that started the fight. Robert kept defending her saying that Baby and Ember were beating up on Angel..... well that's not what I was seeing!... then one day I happened to have been working in the garden by the front door.. I'd been there long enough for the pups to have lost interest in me and were having a jolly good time wrestling. I heard Robert walk through the house and just as he got to the door, Angel suddenly threw herself on her back and screamed like Ember was killing her...... Ember just stood there looking puzzled as Robert came storming out the door saying, "SEE! I told you they were beating up on her!"....... Oh, man..... Angel was playing him like a fiddle and he just would not believe a dog capable of such deceit....... Angel was looking kind of ragged after a couple of years of being on the losing end of their brief fights. When she started to challenge Baby, we decided that she needed a home where she was top dog and a year later we did find the perfect situation for her with an older docile dober boy and an experienced family that was delighted to let her be top dog.
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The year before last at the age of 7, Ember came down ill with an infection and bad went to worse in the two weeks she stayed with the vet as everything including the kitchen sink was thrown at her to get her healed. After a major surgery, the vet called late the next night and said that Ember was just giving up. So I gave permission for the vet to put her to sleep once I was assured that there would be a sleepy shot BEFORE the paralytic that they use to stop the heart and lungs.
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Now we were back to just Baby and she was getting on up there in years.. her hips would inexplicably just come out from underneath her at odd times and she wasn't as spry as she once was but she could still keep up when she wanted to. With Baby nearly 14, Robert started hinting hard that we needed to locate a new pup because, if I'd waited until Baby passed... I would not have the heart to get another dober pup...... and he was right.
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So we brought a new pup with more energy than brains as dobermans often are until they mature. At about a year and a half they get a better handle on controlling themselves and their rampant energy levels. Before that their energy and intelligence just leads them into mischief more often than not... Neekie the new pup found it way too funny to goad Baby into a reprimand that she was way too slow these days to carry out. But Baby would let us know when Neekie was pestering her and a sharp command and Neekie backed off.... for a little while anyway.
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Our children had all long since sett out to make their own families but when my oldest son Cory came for a visit from the Navy, I noticed a hind leg on Baby that was suddenly, badly swollen and making her limp. As I reached under her to check it I felt the hard mass in one of her teats and with a sinking heart, I already knew what the vet would confirm. Cancer. My son picked her up and off we went to the vet.... I was so hoping that I was wrong but I knew that I wasn't. The vet said, "At nearly 14 years old, you've already beaten all the odds." No, I could not put her through surgeries and chemo at her age, not to mention the stress of vet visits, IV's, and side effects. It was not a matter of money however... had I thought it would work, I we'd have  gladly paid it. The vet said she had a few weeks at best and put her on a drug that he said would help with her mobility and some mild pain pills when it was needed. Home we went and wonder of wonders.... not only did the swelling go away but the new drug did it's trick! She was moving and running as she hadn't in several years. She was playing and having a grand time of it this past summer. But I knew it couldn't last and it didn't.... but the vet's few weeks turned into 6 months before trouble reared it's ugly head. She began to limp again and hind end would suddenly fall and her breathing became heavy and labored. Both hind legs and one front leg began to swell. She was still interested and fairly happy so I just watched closely. The swelling in the front leg and one of the back legs began to go down but she wasn't feeling better, weight began to drop off. With her legs swollen I had to grab her thighs and help her up the steps to the house. I didn't mind but she did. Then, last night as I helped her up the steps, I realized that it would be the last time as she didn't have it in her to do it again. I knew it would be a rough Sunday night.... and it was.... one of the hardest nights of both of our lives..... By one am had I been able to carry her I would have driven the hour and a half distance and paid the emergency fees to have the deed done but I couldn't carry her and so long as I stayed cuddled up next to her and did not stop stroking her face, she was calm and at piece. If I so much as got up the use the rest room she would begin to cry out in pain so I stayed all of that night, never stopping the stroking as we weathered the night. My husband needed to go to work and so long as she was at piece we would wait for daylight for him to help me carry her to the car although I'd truly wanted to avoid the stress of the move, the long ride and strangers touching her at this time in her life. I gave her the pain pills and that did help but she never once slept that night...... not until just at day break when she peacefully...... just..... stopped........ And my heart broke. She'd given me my wish and passed peacefully there in the spot she always had laid down in. She passed on December 6th, 2010 at 5:25 am.
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As I sat with tears streaming for the loss of a daughter....... I sewed her into a shroud and Robert and I dig the grave in the spot she liked to lay in shade in the summer... She was the best dog I have ever had the privilege of living with and I can't see myself ever NOT missing her.
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So that is Baby's story from my side of it anyway. I think she had a good life and I know she made mine richer for having her in it.

   
   
   
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